Some may overreact. Some won’t bat an eye.
Since many people have genital herpes or have heard about it, many people won’t be shocked or surprised.
Whatever happens, try to be flexible. Give your partner time to respond, think about what you’ve said and absorb the information.
Remember when you first found out? It took you time to adjust, too.
You don’t have to be overly concerned about protecting a partner’s feelings. And, you may want to reconsider a relationship where you have to do all the emotional work. A safer sex discussion might help you find out if this partner is a good candidate for your love and attention.
A few people are going to react negatively.
It won’t matter what you say or how you say it. Remember, these people are the exception not the rule.
If a partner decides not to pursue a relationship with you because you have herpes, it is best to know this now.
There are many people who will be attracted to you for who you are... with or without herpes.
Most people react well. They appreciate your approach, honesty and maturity in addressing an important health issue.
Remember to put herpes into perspective:
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